As a recent graduate from the Dale Carnegie course, I have been putting effort into living the Dale Carnegie principles. To take the process one step further—I have decided to make myself accountable by starting a daily blog to document exactly what principles I have lived for the next 365 days.
My hope is to grow as a person and invite others to grow with me in this process. I am certain if you put any one of the principles into practice you too will benefit from the results.
Day 1. March 26, 2011
How I turned rotting fish into lemonade using the Dale Carnegie approach.
It was a beautiful Spring morning—warm and sunny with the promise of a great day. I was approaching the gate on the side of my house to enter the backyard. I stopped in my tracks… I noticed a very foul stench and looked around for the cause. I opened the gate and there was the source of the foul stench: a Wal-Mart bag with a huge dead fish.
At this juncture I’d like to say that I handled the moment in a civilized fashion—but I’m human. I was just plain livid—spouting out a colorful bouquet of choice words for the prankster(s). My instinct was to go to the neighbors and politely accuse them of throwing a rotting fish in my backyard. But I didn’t. I grabbed my shovel, a trash can and bag and scooped the rotting fish, mush and all. In all it took minutes—I did what needed to be done—as an adult, a homeowner and as a Carnegie graduate.
As I did this task—I racked my brain trying to make sense of things. What human being would throw a fish into someone’s yard? What does this say about the person? I’ve been listening to Jim Rohn and the Art of Exceptional Living. As Jim Rohn describes it—a person who says he doesn’t do his best in just one area of his life—is fooling himself. A behavior—good or bad—trickles into all areas of a person’s life.
So today I decided to turn a rotting fish into lemonade by creating a blog. The principle I used is from Dale Carnegie’s book, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, Part 4: Try to profit from your losses.
When you try to profit from your losses– you will grow as a person, discover new opportunities and find happiness even in the most unpleasant of circumstances.